My Conflict Management Strategy
1: Compromising/ 31
2: Problem Solving/ 25
3: Withdrowing/ 24
4: Smoothing/ 23
5: Forcing/ 19
I think probably this result apply to me.
I tend to compromise many things, they are almost all small, though. For example, when we stay at hotel, we must decide which course, for example French or Japanese, we want to eat as dinner at the hotel. At the time, even if I thought I want to eat Japanese one, if my accompany choose French, I tend to give up Japanese easily. And instead of giving up Japanese, I ask her to buy and eat Osenbei which is Japanese snack, in our room.
If I take more time to make better choice about deciding dinner menu, we might have it. For example if we ask, we might know different options, like viking, or not eating at this hotel and find a different restaurante.
But I tend to not take long time to solve comflict. This is because I tend to avoid to do so for sth which is unsure that whether I can have good solution about it or not. If I know that taking long time to make problem-solving always makes better results, I will take.
I need to take more time to make better solution for everyone, even if it is uncerten whether it is really made.
If I can do it, I think I can become better conflict dealer.
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